It’s a curious feature of human life that there are occasions when we clearly know the best thing to do and then we go and do something completely different! It can seem that part of us wants one thing and another part stops it.
This is obvious in the case of a person who wants to [...]
Through the years, I have had the privilege of meeting many incredible people who have had a profound effect on my life. They are wonderful examples of living in the moment; of how practicing this philosophy can change not only the individual who lives in the now, but how much they can affect those [...]
How often do you follow your self-interest?
I’m not expecting you do this all the time; the question is – do you do it enough of the time?
Many people can give a long list of all the things that are wrong in the world, the problems they face and the downside of every-day living. But they [...]
It was still dark when my alarm went off. In those first moments of waking, all I could hear was the patter of rain on the window. That just made bed all the more warm and cozy. I listened again and the rain gently continued; surely I could stay a little longer.
Then out of the [...]
To [many] work is not a gratifying opportunity to do good, but a necessary evil they would gladly forgo if they won or inherited a fortune. It is just a livelihood, a vital drudgery. Its meaning is the paycheck and the value it has in terms of service to their community is indifferent or very [...]
Direct Answers – Column for the week of August 11, 2003
I am concerned about a relationship, but it is not my own. My nephew aged 21 is planning to get married this November. While I think he is young, I think the bride to be is far too young at only 17.
My nephew [...]
These days, I find the lines are blurred between school and Real Life. Student life often means spending a cozy evening with your computer or heading to the boardroom for an on-site lesson.
Even traditional campus life has been redesigned for grown-ups. On September 5, 1999, the New York Times Magazine carried a story about life [...]
Direct Answers – Column for the week of April 26, 2004
My girlfriend and I are basically the same age, just a six month difference. When I went to buy the engagement ring in February, I felt certain she was the right one. She accepted my proposal by saying, “If we go slow?”
We’ve been [...]
Fear is deeply rooted in uncertainty. Think about it; the only you’ve ever feared was the unknown. All fear and fears humans have experienced and continue to experience is rooted in uncertainty. A drive in an unfamiliar place can prompt fear, an unknown result, a stranger behind you, or a dark alley.
Any life uncertainty can [...]
Comments about New Theories in the Professions and Business!
I recall reading an article in The New York Times whichfascinated me entitled, “Geniuses, Crackpots and a GrandUnified Theory” by James Glanz. The article basically statedthat even geniuses have some crackpot ideas! It was aboutone genius meeting with other geniuses expounding all typesof incredible theories. For [...]